Fall is in the Air

Today it feels like fall is in the air, even though yesterday it reached almost 90 degrees. Honestly I was kind of excited to be able to put the kids in some of their new-to-them fall clothes.  Will's are a bit big and Olivia's are a bit snug (surprise, surprise). I thought I would sit down today and update my readers on our lives.

Will is two and three months now, and his vocabulary has just exploded this past month. He repeats almost any word we say, sometimes words we wish we wouldn't say (Geesh! Move!) This last week he has really gotten into reading books, especially books where he has to find things in the pictures like Goodnight Moon and Each Peach Pear Plum. I am trying to mix some Bible stories in there as well, but the pictures in the story Bible aren't quite as engaging and he loses interest.
Will is very into Veggie Tales and tv in general, but I find most kids shows to be extremely irritating, so we stick almost exclusively to Veggie Tales with some Disney movies mixed in every now and then.

Will LOVES cars right now. He has probably twenty matchbox cars that he carries around in a bag and will line them all up like a parking lot on our ottoman (all facing the same direction!) He also has three bigger cars that he really enjoys and uses our tv stand as their "garage."  Will is still a super picky eater, but every now and then he will surprise me with what he wants to eat. Last week he ate spinach, ham and onion quiche, but this week wouldn't touch his mac n cheese.

Baths are always a fun activity at our house and sometimes Will will stay in the tub for over an hour. He especially likes to sit in the baby bathtub in the shower with the handheld sprayer. It is a pretty funny sight that reminds me of old western movies where the cowboys would bath in old fashioned tubs.

Lately Will has been showing a lot more affection toward Olivia which is so sweet to see. He always has to tell her goodnight and give her a kiss when he goes to bed, but will also sometimes just randomly go up to her and give her a hug. He likes to give hugs in general; for example, when we go for a walk he has to give every light pole we pass a hug.

 

Olivia is five months old now and weighed 16 lbs at her last doctor appointment. She began rolling from back to front last week, so now log rolling across the room is the thing to do. Quite often she yells in frustration when she is stopped by a toy or piece of furniture in her way, or when she can't quite figure out how to get back to laying on her back. She is very vocal and loves to laugh, squeal and babble. If I answer her back with a similar sound to what she is making we can have "conversations" for quite some time.

Last weekend we got an exer-saucer for her to play with and she enjoys it for short amounts of time -if she can get to it when it is not occupied by her brother :) Overall Olivia is a very sweet baby who loves being held, talked to, and carried. I think she may be teething now as she chews on everything.

Easter Fun

The Saturday night before Easter we thought it would be fun to color eggs this year. We werent sure is Will was quite old enough to participate or to think it was fun, so we decided at least the adults should have fun. We invited Ben, John, and Cassie over to help and hang out with us for the evening. As it turned out, Will did like coloring the eggs once he saw everyone else doing it. He was really in to dropping the eggs into the cups and stirring them. When we were almost done, Will discovered an even more fun use for the spoons - dipping them in the dye and then putting them on his t-shirt! It almost looked like tiedye by the time we were  done. I thought his onesie was ruined for sure, but amazingly enough it came perfectly clean in the wash.

On Easter Sunday, we went to the early service at Hope, and I even dressed the kids up in nice clothes for the holiday. I usually don't bother to dress the kids up for church since most of the adults at our church don't dress up either, but I have been excited to use some of nicer Easter themed clothes that we have for Olivia. The service was really good at church as usual, and afterward we went over to Gail Davis' house for dinner. For the past several years Gail has hosted Easter dinner at her house for the Pike family as well as a couple of other friends that don't have a lot of family in town. It is a nice change of scene and I always look forward to it.

 

This year they had an Easter egg hunt for the little kids in the backyard. I thought for sure Will was too young, but once he figured out that he was supposed to find the eggs and that they had candy in them, he was on a mission. Soon his basket was too full for any more eggs, so Aunt Sara was going to trade him his basket for Ethan's mostly empty basket. We all got a good laugh when Will took off with both baskets!

 

After dinner we hung out for a while and then went on home to nap Will. Later that evening we did our own Easter egg hunt with the eggs we had colored the night before. We had to help Will a little more with this hunt than we did earlier in the day, but again by the end of it he was doing pretty well. He also found his Easter basket which had malted eggs and jelly beans in it. For the next several day, the jelly beans were a big hit!

 I don't think Will quite understood the difference between the plastic eggs and the dyed eggs, because at one point he broke an egg in half and took a bite. Pretty funny. After Easter he kept pulling the eggs out of the fridge, so I decided to hide them for him around the living room. That game came to a quick end when he tried to break them all in half to find candy. I threw away all the beautiful eggs we had dyed, but we soon resumed our game with clearance plastic eggs from Target that I bought for only $.24!

And of course I can't neglect to mention Olivia. She is growing so fast and is a really well mannered little lady. She gets cuter and cuter everyday.

Weekend in Iowa

This past weekend we went to Iowa to visit my parents and grandmas. My dad hadn't met Olivia yet so we wanted to make sure that he would get to see her before she got too big. We had a really good trip. We left on Thursday night after 9 PM and arrived at my parents around 3 AM. It was an exhausting way to travel, but it did make it a lot easier traveling with the kids asleep rather than awake.

 
Friday we slept in late to catch up on sleep from the night before, and then just hung out around my parents' house. It was a really relaxing time. I don't think that Will played with any of the toys we brought the entire time we were at their house, but he had a great time playing with the vacuum cleaner and lawn mower!

On Saturday we went to Sigourney and met my Grandma O'Rourke for lunch at the Pizza Ranch and she got the meet her newest great-granddaughter. Will had fun running around the restaurant with another little girl after the lunch crowd had mostly cleared out. After lunch we went over to my grandma's apartment to visit.

Sunday afternoon after Will's nap we headed over to my Grandma Hayes' farm to visit. She was babysitting my cousins Lily and Robbie for the weekend while their parents were in St. Louis for the weekend. They played really well with Will, and I think all the kids had fun playing together.

On Monday Rob got word that he was being offered a position at MDI Achieve. This was such welcome news as Rob has been looking for a job for almost nine months. So we decided to go out to eat at Pizza Ranch again to celebrate the good news!

The Story of Olivia Rose's Arrival

On April 2nd at 2:54 PM we welcomed our daughter Olivia Rose. She weighed in at 7 lbs 4 oz and was 21 1/4 inches long. I guess the saying is true that good things come to those who wait. Olivia was 15 days past her due date, and I was beginning to wonder if she would ever come.

On Friday night, Rob and I went to the mall to walk around and try to induce labor. I was having contractions that seemed regular, but were pretty weak and really no different from the other Braxton-Hicks contractions that I had been having for the past month. Later that night at home Rob and I watched a movie and I timed the contractions for about an hour. They were about a minute long and six minutes apart. I was pretty skeptical that I was in early labor since this was the same pattern I had the week before but nothing happened. My midwife had told me to call if it happened again, so I did call her around 11 PM Friday night to let her know. She advised me to try to get sleep if I could, but I had taken a nap that day and wasn't tired, so I stayed up until about 12:30 and finished the movie we were watching. I woke up around 3:20 AM and couldn't get back to sleep. Every time I began to drift off to sleep I would get a contraction that was just strong enough at the peak to wake me back up. So at about 3:45 AM Rob and I got up.

I am trying to remember what I was actually doing for those few hours, and I can't remember so I was probably surfing the internet :) By 5:30 AM my contractions were getting stronger so I decided it was probably time to call my doula, the midwives, and my parents to let everyone know that this was the real thing. At this point I was thinking it would be better to call earlier than later since I had no idea what to expect for labor length for my second baby compared to the first. As it turned out there was no rush at all and labor length was about the same as it had been with Will. Rob began setting up the birth tub upstairs in our bedroom and as one midwife set up all the supplies in our bedroom and bathroom the other started steeping herbs in the kitchen to make compresses and an herbal wash. I just tried to keep busy as well chatting between contractions and eating breakfast.

I was able to lay down on the couch for about 45 minutes to rest. I was never able to actually fall asleep, but I was able to relax as my doula Sarah massaged my head, hands, and feet, and it did slow down my contractions quite a bit. Will woke up around 9:30 AM, and while he was eating breakfast we called John and Cassie to come pick him up. They arrived around 10:30 AM and I felt like the contractions were getting a little stronger. Rob and the midwives all thought that it would be a good idea for Rob and me to go for a walk, so we walked outside for about twenty minutes. At first I did not want to go because it was scary to think of a contraction coming on while I was outside without a chair or couch to lean on and have someone press on my sacrum. It worked out fine though, and I was able to just lean on Rob for support.

My midwife checked me at this point, and I was a little disappointed to learn that I was only at 4cm. My contractions had been a little bit start and stop, some close together and then a longer break, and still not super long. We tried to contact the chiropractor I had been seeing to see if she could do a home visit. She wasn't able to come out, but she gave me some exercises to do to straighten and rotate my pelvis that were helpful. My doula also suggested using the breast pump for about 20 minutes to try to stimulate more regular contractions, but I have always hated pumping so that lasted about 1 minute before it hurt too much. So instead Rob and I just hung out together in our bedroom and I did the chest to floor position which worked amazingly well at easing the pain during a contraction.

Around 1:15 PM we decided that it was time for me to get into the tub. The positions I had been using weren't feeling as effective to me anymore. In general, it is advised that you wait until you are dilated to at least 5 cm before getting into the tub, otherwise it can slow labor. Since it had been at least two hours since I had been at 4 cm, we figured it was a good time to get in.

It felt wonderful when I got into the water. I had been kind of cold and the water was a nice warm 100 degrees. I was also finally able to relax my entire body instead of just most of it which felt really good. At about 2 PM the midwife gave me a homeopathic remedy to speed up labor and it worked pretty quickly. My contractions became much stronger and longer (at least it seemed to me). I must have been in transition around this time because I started to feel like it was getting harder and harder to cope through me contractions. I remember feeling like I just wanted to slip my head completely under the water, like that would make me feel better, but was afraid that I would choke on the water since I was having a difficult time controlling my breathing through contractions. Rob held my arms for me so that I didn't have to hold myself up it the tub and my doula kept reminding me to groan low rather than high since that made me almost instantly tense up and made everything hurt more.

At one point I put my ears under the water so that I could just block everything out and be as close to totally submerged as possible. I remember looking out around the tub and feeling like I was having all this intense turmoil, but all these people were just calmly waiting. It was a weird feeling. Sarah told me once to change positions from floating on my back to a lunge position, and wow did I switch back as quickly as possible. I started to get really warm and could tell that my face was probably all flushed. They put cool cloths on my face and it felt like the most wonderful thing ever. I started asking "How much longer? I can't keep doing this!" Rob decided to get into the tub with me to support me so I could lean back without falling into the water. So I sat on his lap and leaned back against his chest. It was a much more comfortable position.

At this point the midwives decided to check me, and they told me that the baby's head was only about an inch from crowning. I couldn't believe it. I didn't even realize that I was completely dilated already. That was just enough encouragement for me to keep going. So I began to start pushing with the next contraction, which brought the baby to crowning, then I pushed for her head and a third time for her body. The original plan had been to take the pushing phase very slowly to prevent me from tearing like I did with Will, but when they checked the baby's heart rate after the first push it was really low, so I had to push her out really quickly.

After Olivia was born I quickly brought her up to my chest, and Rob and I had her there still sitting in the pool until her cord stopped pulsating. Rob cut the cord, and then I got out of the pool. I wasn't able to nurse Olivia until the cord was cut because it was kind of short, so it was nice to get into bed and nurse her. I was sure that I probably tore since I had to push so hard at the end, but I was very relieved to learn that I only had one small tear that didn't even need stitches.

My mom arrived at the house about twenty minutes after Olivia was born, and the midwives stayed for several hours after the birth. Rob and the midwives were busy cleaning up while I held Olivia. Overall, I felt like the homebirth was a great experience. It was so nice to not have to leave home to go the hospital and to have so many knowledgeable and supportive people around me during the birth. The water birth aspect of the birth was also great. The water helped me not only relax but also cope better with the contractions during transition and the warmth was very soothing. I am so glad that we chose to do homebirth; it was a much more intimate experience than hospital birth.

Olivia has been a great baby so far and we are already so in love with her. We can’t wait to watch her grow!